I recently started an e-mail conversation with an acquaintance who is actively involved in both the LDS church and the GLBT rights movement. His comments and observations were heartfelt and I wanted to give them some air here, along with my thoughts on the matter. There were two specific ideas he presented that I feel are key to his position. The first was that since God doesn’t make mistakes and God made him gay, all he wants is to honor that. The second was that nowhere in the scriptures did Jesus speak against homosexuality. I’ll address the second point today and the first later.
In Matthew 19; 3-12, the Pharisees asked Jesus if it was lawful for a a man to “put away his wife for every cause“. His answer began with: “Have ye not read that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female…” (ref. Gen 1:27) Jesus then continued; “for this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and cleave unto his wife”and they twain shall be one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together shall no man put asunder.” These statements are clearly about divorce and marriage.
Moses allowed divorce in cases of fornication. But that was “for the hardness of their hearts”. Jesus elaborated about marital fidelity in Matthew 5:27-28 saying: “Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”
The subject was also addressed in Matthew 22:23 - 33, where the Sadducees posed a question about the duty of man a to marry and father offspring by the childless widow of his dead brother. (Deuteronomy 25:5) They posed a case where seven brothers marry the same woman, and all die childless. Jesus replied: “Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, not the power of God.” He finished by saying that in the resurrection these brothers and the woman will all be unmarried. The multitude hear this and are “astonished” at Jesus’ doctrine.
By way of background; The first thing God did after making man and woman in his own image, male and female, was to bless them and tell them to “Be fertile and increase, fill the earth and master it…” (JPS Genesis 1:28)
From these verses, it seems to me that the Biblical position is that God made men and women to marry, have children and be faithful to each other. Jesus said it in Matthew, Elohim said it in Genesis. Like Proposition 8, these scriptures have to do with the nature of the marriage relationship, not homosexuality. (Proposition 8 was about the definition of marriage, not homosexuality, per se.)
In a way my friend is correct, Jesus didn’t specifically say that homosexuality is a sin. However he clearly addressed the purpose and nature of marriage and anyone who wants to use the scriptures as a basis of argument, should probably consider that.